Denim Day and Sexual Violence

Tomorrow, April 26th, marks a day called Denim Day. Aimed at standing with victims of sexual violence. This day asks you to simply put on a pair of jeans to show your support. Why jeans? In a specific case in 1999 it was ruled that because the girls jeans were so tight she must have helped take them off therefor making her attack consensual instead of rape. This is yet another horrific example of how the blame is not put entirely on the rapist themselves as it should be. As a result this movement has started to show support and raise awareness for the all too prevalent issue. Aside from just wearing jeans some city chapters and organizations have also began to hang jeans and put on different displays to also promote the message.

This lies in touch with the idea of victim blaming that is seen and discussed in The Bluest Eye. Victim blaming suggests that it is not entirely the rapists fault. With the idea, there lies the assumption that the victim could have gotten out of it or could have done something to run away or fight back. In the case of Pecola in The Bluest Eye she is about 12. The rapist therefor has more control and ability to dominate their victim. However, there still will be circumstances and individuals that will still see the victim as having the ability to get out of the situation.

The keyword that relates to this idea is the word “Body”. While a body exhibits identifying features it also leads to vulnerability. Sometimes, individual’s bodies are taken advantage of and treated as just a cloak of skin rather than what someone has felt comfortable in their whole lives. Bodies are often associated with sexuality and sex. In cases of rape, one’s conformability of their body is taken away and instead of a proud identifying feature is a remembrance of what occurred to them. It is societies duty to help these victims be comfortable with themselves again by ensuring that it was nothing they did wrong, or nothing that was wrong with them that led to those awful events happening.

I find this movement especially captivating due to the time frame in which we are still showing support for a rape survivor from almost two decades ago. Sadly there are many more cases like hers where the victim is put at fault for the events that occurred, even more saddening is that many of the cases go unnoticed, unheard, or not believed.

A relatable saying I’ve heard is how we shouldn’t be telling girls what not to wear but instead telling boys to not rape.

Rape is never the victims fault but always the rapists.

http://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/denim-day-offers-chance-stand-victims-sexual-violence-simply-wearing-n750961?cid=sm_npd_nn_fb_ma

 

 

1 thought on “Denim Day and Sexual Violence”

  1. Thanks for sharing this. Do you happen to know the name of the case in which the victim was blamed on account of her jeans being too tight for an assailant to remove? That’s ignorant reasoning on someone’s part, I’d be curious to read more about it. As for victim blame, it’s such a prevailing force. Many victims don’t report or discuss their assaults because they’d rather not deal with the blame that’s usually to some extend inevitable. I agree with you if we want to correct this issue we have to start having conversations about sex with boys when they are young. And we have to stand up for behavior and words we hear in the real world that perpetuate rape culture. We can make a difference by calling someone out on victim blaming or listening to music that blatantly degrades women. I’d check out Alexis Jones’s Ted Talk about this issue and on how we can get boys involved.

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